Single in the City 8: Spring Fever

Yes, it is back!  Based on the blooming flowers, warm weather, and abundance of pastel colors in retail stores it is safe to say that spring is here!   Now that the frigid temps of The Cold Winter have come and gone, single women everywhere must brace themselves for those ugly side effects of “Spring Fever.” 

Almost every where you go people portray spring as this fun-filled time of the year to enjoy nature.  Great weather encourages walks in the park and picnics in the shade, but let’s be honest ladies–to seal the deal and make it worth your while, you need to have a male companion.  This is what spring fever does to us. Whenever the sun is shining bright and there is a slight breeze in the air we start to think of all the awesome activities that we could be doing with the opposite sex. 

It is so easy to focus on how much better life can be with a boyfriend/ husband but STOP!!!  Proverbs 23:7 clearly states that so a [wo]man thinketh so is [s]he.  Once the enemy gets us caught up in those dreadful symptoms of Spring Fever it is only a matter of time before we start to lose hope in the promises God has for our future.  “And this expectation will not disappoint us.  For we know how dearly God loves us, because he has given us the Holy Spirit to fill our hearts with his love.” (Romans 5:5 NLT) As always, single ladies, God knew I would get to the point where I would yearn for company but He always makes provisions. 

The biggest problem with being ‘Single in the City’ is that I get consumed with the commercial idea of being in a relationship and forget that I have been in one for the majority of my life.  I have actually been engaged in a love triangle with the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit for over 15 years!  I must admit that it has been the most fulfilling relationship ever. They listen more than they speak, when they do speak it is of substance and extremely relevant, they lead me through rough times, and carry me when it gets to be too much.  I don’t know about you but I am willing to wait it out because the soul mate God has for me will be strategically designed by my Daddy who knows me best!

Dear Daddy,

Thank You for forcing me to realize that the only way that I will beat the Spring Fever blues is to counteract it with more of You.  You chose to stay in a relationship with me even when I chose otherwise and for that I am eternally grateful.  Please help me to keep my heart and mind focused on the love we have for each other and I’m certain this single thing will be a breeze.  In Jesus’ Name, Amen!

Single gals, I EMPOWER you to shake that Spring Fever.  Instead of thinking of all the things you can do with a male counterpart, channel that energy to advance your “love affair” with God to a full blown LOVING relationship.  His feelings have been on the table for a while and it’s time for you to pour yours out as well.  Be Blessed :-)

Single ladies, how are you beating the Spring Fever blues? Share it with us below.

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Ms. Latasha Sampson is an accomplished writer who is currently pursuing her Masters Degree in Human Resources Management.  She resides in Nashville, Tennessee where she is a faithful member of Mt. Zion Baptist Church. She serves tirelessly with the Evangelism Team there.  Latasha also works at Mt. Zion as a member of the Administrative Support Staff. Her favorite scripture is “No weapon formed against you shall prosper, and every tongue which rises against you in judgment you shall condemn.” Isaiah 54:17

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3 thoughts on “Single in the City 8: Spring Fever

  1. Resting and trusting that God has me single for a purpose. Continually looking for ways to encourage others and not focus on myself and my desires.

  2. It is true. Single women sometimes get so caught up in catching a boo, they forget to create a foundation that will make them excellent wives, including a stronger relationship with a Higher Being.

  3. Ladies,
    You all both hasve a great point! Ginnie, I love the statement that God has me single for a purpose… Clearly I wouldn’t be able to write Single in the City if I wasn’t :) Seriously, we never know how much our obedience and testimonies are tied to the next woman’s deliverance. We must always go through what ever it is with our head held high and trusting God that it is for His glory.

    Gone to Ghana, God is difinetly preparing us to be the best wives and mothers that we can be so that when he does send us our sacred soul mate we are more than prepared! Being Single in the CIty is tough when we try to do it ourselves but it is easy when we allow God to work on us totally.

    Be Blessed Ladies!

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