Attitude, Co-Workers, Gentleness, Growth/Maturity, Kindness, Love

Be a Change Agent

“If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” Romans 12:18 NIV

I wrote some time ago about the weird practices that take place at my job because of budgetary constraints.  One of the bizarre things is the trash collection procedure. At my past jobs, thorough office cleaning took place outside of normal business hours. However, here the daily cleaning consists only of emptying the trash in each cubicle and the trash man comes around while everyone is busy working at their desks. This would not irk me so much if he didn’t roll his huge industrial sized trash can INSIDE my cube to collect the trash. This has to be the most disgusting thing ever! I would get so irritated and angry whenever I heard the wheels rolling toward my workspace. You may be thinking that I am overreacting but imagine this germ-ridden trash receptacle brushing up against your coat that is hanging on the wall of your cubicle as the garbage man tries to squeeze it into your tiny space. I had gotten so annoyed that I was beginning to resent him for what he was doing everyday—his job.

Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect. Romans 12:2 NLT

One day I finally figured out that my attitude and annoyance was not changing the situation; in actuality, it was only making it much worse. It was at that moment that I decided to do my part to change. I started setting my trash can outside of my cubicle each morning whenever I heard the wheels coming in my direction. I couldn’t change his habits so I changed mine! That scenario reminds me of the countless situations where we deal with difficult people or things. We become so frustrated by the way that someone is acting and the idiotic things that they are doing. If we are honest, we have even allowed ourselves to react to their senselessness in ways that are embarrassing and unacceptable. But there comes a time when we have to make a declaration to change: God, if You are not going to change this situation, change me! Change what, you ask? Change your thinking, your heart, your attitude and your reactions. Mary Engelbreit said it best: “If you don’t like something change it; if you can’t change it, change the way you think about it.”

At first the garbage man was a little taken aback by my new approach. He seemed a bit surprised that I was “doing his job” for him. But as time passed, he began thanking me for helping him out. It has even gotten to the point where he gets a little testy if he “pulls up” and my trash can isn’t outside. This is the wonderful thing about changing the way that you act in a difficult and annoying situation; your actions may eventually change the way that the opposition views the situation as well. They may never tell you, but your behavior has the potential to drastically alter their thinking.

In the header scripture, Paul writes to the Romans advising them to live at peace with everyone as much as it depends on them. Can you honestly say that you are doing YOUR part to fulfill this nugget of scripture? We are called to a higher standard of living and we must uphold the integrity of the Gospel, even when we are dealing with difficult people and situations.

Dear Daddy,

Please forgive me for the times that I reacted to difficult situations and people in a way that was contrary to Your word. Going forward, please help me act in a way that is pleasing to You and glorying to Your kingdom. Lord, if You are not ready to change _________, please help me to change the way I think and act about them/it. I know that Your will is what’s best for me! In Jesus’ Name, Amen!

Ladies, you are “perfect”, now CHANGE! 🙂 Today, I EMPOWER you to change your thinking, change your attitude, change your heart and change the way that you respond. Those difficult situations and people will not have so much negative influence and power in your life if you allow the change agent to have His way in your life! When the situation doesn’t change, you must decide to change!

Mrs. Kristen Harris is a wife, mother, entrepreneur and dedicated servant.  She is extremely passionate about women’s spiritual advancement, hence the founding of EmpowerMoments.  As an avid reader, Kristen enjoys reading the Bible and other non-fiction pieces. Her driving inspiration is when God says to her: “For I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”  (Jeremiah 29:11) She currently resides outside of Chicago, Illinois with her wonderful husband and two lovely daughters where she is an active member of New Life Covenant Church.

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10 thoughts on “Be a Change Agent”

  1. This is a beautiful way to start the week especially since many will be among family members this week for the holiday season. Use this same approach when dealing with some of those difficult family members. Ask Christ to envelope you with His love and Power so we can begin to change people..by first changing ourselves!

  2. Lord,help me to change and give me the grace to give mercy to those who dont change,Amen!!! Change is scary,frustrating,and HARD! God does not want us to remain the same,but with his grace and sweet Holy Spirit we’ll be able to do it(CHANGE)! Continue EM and know that your work is needed!!!

  3. So true. We can either decide to change or be changed by our surroundings. Usually adapting to the surroundings can be a negative experience; however, exuding light in dark places is a needed change.

    Renee is on point. Some of our family places have been the same way for many years. This Thanksgiving will be no different. Shift your attitude when people come at you and try to tell you what you should be doing and when you should be doing it. Thank God for them anyway and delight in the conversation instead of giving them that angry scowl. My favorite quote by Mahatma Ghandi is “Be the change you want to see in the world”…. Start at home and this attitude will go with you elsewhere.

  4. Krissy,
    Wow! This word was for me. I read it yesterday and as I read it again with the comments it blessed me even more. I am going to be the change on my job, in my home, with my family and especially in my Ministry that the world needs! I thank you because as I was thinking negatively about my job God sent an angel like you to speak into my life. This word is awesome and so are you for being obedient!

  5. Krissy,

    What a wonderful word! I’m thankful that God placed this on your heart and mind to share with the group. I’ve been dealing with the thought of wanting someone in my life to change. But who am I to determine that someone else needs to change?! I need to examine myself and change my way of thinking and maybe even my attitude. Thanks!

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