Encouragement, Honesty/Truth, Restoration, Righteousness, Sin

Ms. Counterfeit

“Yet a time is coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for they are the kind of worshipers the Father seeks.” John 4:23 NIV

Hello, my name is Ms. Perfection, and I am perfect. I speak perfectly and I am careful not to speak ill will or negativity to anyone. My Facebook page is full of Bible verses and I go to church twice a week. I don’t gossip and I pay my tithes and even more with every pay check.  I don’t drink, smoke, or chew, or hang with those that do. I don’t go to the club and I make sure that those that do, know they are living in sin. I make sure I call it out! I’m faultless!

A grieved voice: “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” Romans 3:23 NIV

Hello, my name is Ms. Cover, and I cover up the bad with the good. I speak the Word of God over every situation and I ensure to show my friends that I give thanks. My Twitter account is linked to all the well-known Pastors and all of my networking statuses are filled with Godly words and quotes. I have a secret: I sleep around because I’m addicted to sex and men, and frankly, if God wanted me to not be so promiscuous, He would relieve me of this right? Well, I make sure I cover this up too, because the girls I mentor are learning to live a holy life and I have to cover up to make sure they live right.

A grieved voice: “For there is nothing hidden that will not be disclosed, and nothing concealed that will not be known or brought out into the open.” Luke 8:17 NIV

Hello, my name is Ms. Pointer and I point out the issues. When I see a friend sinning, I make sure they know! I point out all the issues to every rapper, singer, friend, politician or foe. This entire world is going to hell I tell you! After all, this is what God said do: He wants us to make it plain and tell it like it is! My friendship circle is almost non-existent because people just sin so much and I get tired of having to tell people how wrong they are. I make sure as soon as they say or do something unrighteous, I slap them with the Word! I don’t need friends, all I need is God!

A grieved voice: “You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.” Matthew 7:5 NIV

Hi, I’m Ms. Sinner. I’m a wretch undone. My filthiness equates to a dirty rag. Sometimes I tell my mind to do one thing, but I find myself doing another. Sometimes I portray to be perfect, cover up my blemishes with a little MAC, or lash out to others about their wrongdoings because mine are so painful. I want God to come and rescue me. I don’t deserve the car I drive. After all, I’ve used it as a hotel and it hasn’t honored Him. The house I own has been trashed with gatherings, sets, and parties that do not honor Him. I don’t deserve this outer beauty He has bestowed upon me because I don’t honor it. I smoke, drink, and fornicate at will. But I want a connection with something everlasting; I want a life that is filled with water overflowing. I want God to forgive me of my sins so that He can teach me how to leave the realms of self-perceived perfection, the lie of covering it all up, and being a hypocrite when I am really insecure.

Ladies, can’t we all identify a little bit with the Ms. Perfect, Ms. Cover, and Ms. Pointer? I know I can. But how can God work through our lives to get the glory if we walk around in a façade? How can He make us perfect in His own divine glory if we create our own perfections and neglect the humbleness of forgiveness, mercy, growth, and repentance? I am reminded of the woman with the alabaster box. She was a known sinner. But when she came to Jesus she humbled herself, wiped His feet with her hair, and anointed Him with her most valuable possession, the perfumes from her alabaster box. What’s interesting about alabaster boxes in that time, is that once they are broken, they can’t be sealed again. So everything that is on the inside must come out. When she poured out her inner truths of her heart, she was forgiven.

Dear Daddy,

I want to be honest with You today. I want to lay before You my inner sins of self-righteousness, conceit, and judgment. I want to be the type of worshipper that worships You in truth, honesty, and transparency. Lord, please help me become real before You so that I may be healed. I want to truthfully be able to witness to others, that mercy through Christ is true perfection, Your blood is the true cover, and pointing my heart to You is what makes me whole. In Jesus’ Name, Amen!

Ladies, I EMPOWER you to pour out your heart to God, empty your alabaster box in worship. Be transparent to Him about your issues. Many of us carry around fake faces and perform empty gestures when truthfully we need to humble ourselves before God and worship Him in truth. It is then that our witness will be strengthened and the blood of Jesus will cover our past so that we can minister and help other sisters in Christ.

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As a professional, Mrs. Khalilah Burton is a College Biology Instructor. She is also currently pursuing a Doctorate of Education in Higher Ed and Community College Leadership. Khalilah is passionate about her faith journey and uses this key scripture as her inspiration: “But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.” (Isaiah 40:31 KJV) She and her husband serve as Co-Service leaders and Co-Group leaders of SustainedLove, which supports marriage get-a-ways from Family Life. Khalilah also serves as a guest speaker and panelist for various events for women and Christian empowerment. Khalilah resides in Millbrook, Alabama with her wonderful husband Donald Burton, Jr. and their energetic four-year old daughter. They attend Vaughn Forest Church.  Check out Khalilah’s Christian weight loss blog here.

10 thoughts on “Ms. Counterfeit”

    1. HI Renee,
      Thank you for reading it. I pray that you were just as blessed as I was, when I re-read it. I wasn’t sure how this message was going to be received by people, so thank you for the encouragement as well.

  1. Love, Love, Love it! So powerful, I didn’t know whether to say Amen or Ouch, I thank God for this word!!!!

    1. Kisha, you should have seen me flinching as I wrote this. With each character (which has some part of me in it somewhere) I was saying to myself, this is gonna hurt!! I am thankful that it was received well. God’s conviction is translated as love.

    1. Just as I was telling another commenter, this was truly a “tip toe” in writing. But we have to unveil to get the true crown. Your comment made me laugh because I came down my street too :-). Thanks for reading, supporting, and commenting.

  2. I L-O-V-E-D this Kay! I like the perspective that we are not finished until he’s finish. Sometimes I have to stop myself from trying to order the steps folks take on their journey, by not slapping them with the word:), but I truly did enjoy reading this piece.

    1. Lisa, I am so glad this blessed you. Proverbs 27:17 says, Iron sharpens iron. But I find that sometimes we are still foil, not yet iron, while we’re trying to sharpen people. Proverbs 19:11 says, A man’s discretion makes him slow to anger, And it is his glory to overlook a transgression. Sometimes we have to discern the right time. 2 Timothy 4:2 says, Preach the word; be prepared in season and out of season; correct, rebuke and encourage —with great patience and careful instruction. But sometimes we forget the ending part. I wrote all of this to say, the Bible does tell us to confront, rebuke, and correct our brothers and sisters, but sometimes we go about it with the wrong heart. Sometimes I have to “slap myself with the Word” to make sure when I am in the position to correct, or let’s say “enlighten”someone, that my heart is in the right place. This is what keeps me in check when I am praying for timing and sincerity in my approach: Proverbs 11:22: Like a gold ring in a pig’s snout is a beautiful woman who shows no discretion.

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