For his anger lasts only a moment, but his favor lasts a lifetime; weeping may stay for the night, but rejoicing comes in the morning. (Psalms 30: 50 NIV)
I was talking to a friend and she was talking about how every bill is due, how her mate is not acting right and how she is stressed in every area of her life. I first thought about encouraging her with faith, but I discuss faith so much I’m sure she could have recited the scriptures for me. I prayed and decided to ask her a question. I asked, “Have you ever been without anything to eat?” She responded, “No.” I asked her, “Have you ever not had a place to live?” She again responded, “No.” I asked her, “Even if you were unemployed, who made a way for you?” She responded, “God.” So I asked her, “What is the difference now?” She didn’t have an answer. My answer for her: “If you hold on, joy will come!”
After this conversation I started doing a little reflecting on where I had been in my life and I realized I am blessed. Of course, I didn’t just realize that, but I was thinking about previous things I had been through. I don’t want you to think that it is ok to dwell on the past but sometimes when you are going through something it is easy to become discouraged. Reflecting on how God has made a way so many times before is essential while you are going through a trying time.
You may have a loved one that is battling an addiction (drugs, alcohol, food, sex, gambling, etc). I don’t want you to give up on them. If God has kept them this long, He can and will heal them. When God heals your loved one they will be free indeed. So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed. (John 8:36 NIV) Don’t give up because all seems hopeless. If you hold on, joy will come.
You may be depressed about your life because it has not turned out like you thought it should. They may have thoughts of suicide or harming others. I want you to remember that God has not put more on you than you can bear. No test or temptation that comes your way is beyond the course of what others have had to face. All you need to remember is that God will never let you down; he’ll never let you be pushed past your limit; he’ll always be there to help you come through it (1 Corinthians 10:13 MSG) Whatever is going on in your mind that is not like God remember if you hold on, joy will come.
You may be battling with marriage or relationship issues. Don’t give up because you are invested and God is working it out. Don’t end your marriage because times are hard or finances are scarce. Remind yourself of 1 Corinthians 13:4-7: Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. (NIV) No one promised that love, relationships and marriage would be easy, but if God ordained the union it will work out for you. If you just hold on, joy will come.
I want to thank You for protecting and comforting me when I felt like giving up. Thank You for being my joy after the turmoil in my life. God continue to mold me and encourage me when I’m discouraged. Lord, continue to bring back to my remembrance that trouble doesn’t last always and if I hold on joy will come! In Jesus’ Name, Amen!
Ladies, I EMPOWER you to remember that trouble doesn’t last always. When issues come into your life, I want you to remember that the same way God saved your life so many times before, He’s working on your behalf right now. I EMPOWER you to smile through your tears because they are only temporary. If you just hold on, joy will come!
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Mrs. Keviyona Ray is an ordained minister and co-pastor of The Christ For All People International Church. She is passionate about sharing the word of God with everyone she encounters. As a professional, Keviyona is a teacher for Chicago Public Schools. She loves her ministry of teaching and changing children’s lives. She is a devoted wife and mother of a wonderful daughter. Two of her favorite scriptures are Jeremiah 1: 5: “Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee; and before thou camest forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, and I ordained thee a prophet unto the nations” and Proverbs 29:18: “Where there is no vision, the people perish: but he that keepeth the law, happy is he.”